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dear betty

i am in 5th grade and i like this boy who is going out with a 4th grader, isnt that wierd? i sit by him in math and have to hear him and his friend talk about her. what should i do?

I need advice.

Dear Betty,

This Saturday I am going on my first date ever with a kid from London. His name is Lawrence. He has dreamy blue eyes. We went on a ski trip together in ski school to welcome him after he moved here. We went on a private trail through a forest, sat together on the chairlift, and ate lunch together. He and I became gradually boyfriend and girlfriend. He tells me he loves me because I am pretty and smart. I am kinda nervous I might say something stupid and he would break up with me. We are going to a resturant, then a movie. Which movie should we go to? Also, I am nervous and I don't know how to act. Also, some girls in my 5th grade are jealous of me and are saying nasty things and betraying our friendships. That's another thing- how can I have a boyfriend before anyone else and still have friends? Most girls are faithful, though. What to wear isn't a problem, I got designer jeans and a super cute shirt. I won't wear makeup though. I'm a year younger then anyone in the grade anyway.

Thanks!

-Coral

I would usually do no.#3. When I have a bad day , I play the piano. It helps me calm down and relax. If you can't play the piano , though , there are many other things you could do. When you are really angry , you could take out your anger on a pillow. If you have no one to talk to , write it down in a journal if you have one. Writing things out helps you feel better. If those things don't work, think of all the good things that happened and build on them. There is a better side to that or any day.If all of these don't work try doing something you love. When I'm having a bad day I would do all my favourite things and eventually I would feel better. I hope this advice helps!

When i'm having a bad day, I usually write in my mystery novel or i read a nancy drew of hardy boy book. Mystery things are the best way to get me out of a bad mood.

hey if i have a bad day i usually relax or get my friends to help me.

Hey Bets,

When I'm having a bad day,I just think on the bright side of things. There's always a bright side to every bad situation!:>)

If I have a bad day, I usually read past posts on all of the Archie Comics Blogs! :-D Or I just read a book. By the way, After you said that "Cheryl's #1 Fan" had a bad day, you put a smiley face. Why? Shouldn't that have been a sad face? Also, I NEED ADVICE BADLY!!!! PLEASE HELP!! Here's my question:

Dear B&V,

I like this guy that I see pretty much everyday. (But only in one class.) We're really good friends and we've known each other since 2nd grade. During different periods, I WAS always in the same class as he was at the same time. Then they HAD to switch it around for some reason. We even sat next to each other!! But now, I only have 1 class with him. :( Anyway, as I was saying, we've known each other since 2nd grade. The thing is, he doesn't know that I've liked him since 2nd grade. As I said before, we're good friends. I can't take it anymore!! I LOVE HIM! I've been having dreams about him!!! How do I tell him that I like him without coming on too strong, and without ruining our friendship? Thanks!

Wow! I read your comment Cheryl blossoms #1 fan! I'm so sorry to hear that you had such an awful day! Well i have a few tricks to turing an awful day over! first of all, in the beginning of each day try to make a promise to yourself that you will try your hardest not to complain or let stuff get to you and you'll try to let yourself have a bad day, now i'm not the best at this but i do try to do this and it helps! Also if things start going wrong just remember that bad days happen, and don't let all the little things people say about you get to you, just cause people say you life somebody or make fun of you, that shouldn't upset you, its their problem, not yours. i hope this helps.

How do YOU turn around a really bad day?

I'm still trying to figure that out haha

Do you just give into it and get in a bad mood?
sometimes
Do you ride it out and hope tomorrow is better?
sometimes
Do you realize you’re in the middle of a bad day, and do something about it? And if you DO something, what do you DO?
not really. but i'll pray...that helps. it also helps to talk to my mom or to blog about it. alot of times i crack a joke to myself about it and it makes me laugh. haha

WHEN I'M HAVING A BAD DAY,I READ THE BIBLE,THAT CALMS ME DOWN.

hey betty,
when i'm having bad day i usually go into my bedroom and just let my imagination fly. i have a whole story made up and i just go on to another event that happens in my little story. it really helps!!

hey Betty,
i really REALLY like a guy who goes to the same church that i do. he is really handsome and is just the kind of guy i would would totall love to go out with. he likes me as well. we never talk to each other but we can often stare at each other for ages. sometimes when we'r alone he is about to ask me out but can never get up the courage. and a few weeks ago a girl from his class at school cme to church and told me that he is always talking to and teasing the the girls in his class. i feel really angry with him. i'm not happy that he always talks to girl in his class but is always to shy to talk to me. how do i get over these feelings and how do i let him know that i also like him and would really like him too ask me out?

What i always do is think of the postitives in my day, like if someone payed me a compliment or i got a good mark on a test, everyday has to have SOME postitives right? Even if its been a basically horrible day. And sometimes if your really lucky, the next day will be Awesome!

XOXOX
Morgie

Er,I TRY to help on this. Bad days are rare for me. Yes,it's true. Life's been sooooo good to me. :) Anyway,here are my answers.

How do YOU turn around a really bad day?
I do something fun,like going on the Internet or visiting one of my neighborhood friends.

Do you just give into it and get in a bad mood?
never.
Do you ride it out and hope tomorrow is better?
I do something about it.
Do you realize you’re in the middle of a bad day, and do something about it? And if you DO something, what do you DO?
Yes! Se above. :) Well, I hope I helped! ;)
Reggie forever,
~animalgurl~

Dear Betty,

I need advice.You see,one of my best friends has an ex-boyfriend that I have a HUGE crush on.Ever since "Valentines Day".I think Cupid hit me or something.Anyway,She still likes him and expects me to be there for her.And she dumped him.She also only likes him because he's cute.Plus when I talk to him,he looks at me like milk came out of my nose.Yesterday she asked me if she should move on or get back together with him.What should I say?And what should I do to make him like me?I'm having a very bad day.:(Please answer Betty and bbs can help too.

~Dalton~

lol betty right behind she had a bad day you put a smiley face..i dont no why i noiced that i guess i thought it would be frowny face..hmm lol
-shea ?'s nick jonas

Coral,I think what you should do is to stop struggling and just be yourself.And If he says he loves you again he expects say you to say it back.So think"Do I really love this guy"?And if you say your not sure,he'll understand and give you some time to think about it.If you say you do,don't come on too strong.Guys hate that.They like their space.But I hope you realize if you say you do you two will get really serious.Hoped it helped!:)

~Dalton~

I don't have bad days because I try to think of the positives. But if I do have a bad day I would ride it out.

I love to read my way out of a bad day

I love to read my way out of a bad day

hey.. when im having a bad day. the best thing is to hang out with a variety of friends.. we always laugh at somethin. and if im really down they are sure to try make me happy.. its what i would do for them if they were upset

hey PHEMY!!!
from reading ur things on here i thought u were a real cool person. oh yeah, and, i'd luv it if we could chat. gotta go now.....gotta get back 2 listening 2 my CD. just wannted 2 tell u that!!!

I'm not to sure how to turn around a bad day. I always wait it out. I have a question for you though Betty. have you ever gotten to the point where it seems like everything comes down on you at once and then someone you care very much about does something to really hurt you? If so, how do you get rid of teh pain from it?

Well when I have bad days (and I get them a lot) lol I always feel down and nothing seems to get me up except when I talk to my mom. I can open up to her and tell her everything and she is always good at comforting me and I also have you guys to thank. I mean the times you have all thanked me when I tried my best to help you, it made me feel so good. This place sure is special. And there's no other online that feels safe and trustworthy but here. Thank you all!

And sorry for not helping much for a while. I'll try and lend a hand giving you guys some advice too if you want. I'm not as good as Betty but I'll post some advice if you like. :D

Love you guys!

**Teddy bear hugs to Betty, Patty and all you fellow bloggy buddies! *** :D

hi i want some help you see i like this girl and i see her every sunday and
Wednesday and i like her and you see i just made friends with her and her friends so i don't know what to do help me

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

hope to read you soon

hi betty there's this guy who keeps bothering me he kicks me and stuff like that one day he hurt my friend she was going to the hospital what should i do???

I have quite a few bad days, but I don't crawl into my shell and just let it happen. Well, in a way I guess I do, I hide in my room for about ten minutes and let the steam off. Then I rejoin my family and play a game. And if I do find in the middle of the day, it's a bad day, I normally just ride it out, but sometimes I curl up with an Archie volume and a small piece of dark chocolate, and I'm set. I let the bad vibes drift off of me and collect on my floor where I sweep them up and throw them away!

:D Katy :D

Thanks everyone for the comments! Phemy, reading the bible DOES calm you down! U were right!

Hi betty and veronica !! you two are awesome

When having a bad day, simply look into the mirror, smile and say I LOVE YOU! lol, it works every time

THANKS 'SIMONE'!!!!! AND I 'D LOVE TO CHAT WITH YOU!
ENJOY LISTENING TO YOUR CD!

I'M GLAD THAT I HELPED,'Cheryl Blossom's 1# Fan'

Hiya everyone. Most of yall have boy problems, but i dont. i have doctor problems. I am missing a bone in one of my ears, which make me not able to hear out of it. Yesterday i had surgery for it and three or four horrible things happened:
1. My ear hurts REALLY bad.
2. I cant to anything exept walk for 30 days.
3. I some how bit my tounge during the surgery, so now its swolen.
4. I feel TERRIBLE.
I will be suprised to know if someone is having a worse day than me.
please people tell me what i can do to make me feel better.
Bye yall
STARGIRL

hey PHEMY,
i also think that reading the Bible calms u down. i do it often!!

hey Phemy!!!!!
i wanted 2 know, do u live in America? i'd luv 2 know. i live in Australia and my dad came home from America just this morning.

I'M GLAD THAT YOU AGREE WITH ME!

NO,SIMONE.I DON'T LIVE IN AMERICA,BUT MY COUSINS DO.I HOPE TO VISIT THEM THIS YEAR.

I'D LIKE TO ASK YOU A QUESTION TOO:
WHAT ARE YOUR HOBBIES AND WHAT DO YOU MOSTLY DO?
ARE YOU INTO SPORTS OR FASHION?

LOVE YA!

Hi bbs,Your right reading the bible really does calm you down.I'm so relaxed.Thanks!Reading Harry Potter books calms me down and I think HarryPotterfan agrees with me.;)

P.S Please give me some advice about my boy problm.:(

~Dalton~

Hi, how are you doing? ;/ I hope you're doing better.

Here's my advice if you want to try it but it's all up to you. :)

Let's see... I didn't understand this part you typed: "...She also only likes him because he's cute.Plus when I talk to him,he looks at me like milk came out of my nose." Did you mean that he looks at you weird or laughs at you?

Well first thing's first, I think there are certain things that play a part here. For instance, it depends how your friend is and how he is, (personality wise). If your friend liked him because he is cute but she dumped him, do you know why she dumped him? Can you explain why? Maybe it can help us figure out how they are and the situation.

Next is, I totally understand that "cuteness" has to be part of why you like a guy and also a good personality. I understand by your post that you suddenly realized him as a cute guy, only there are a few problems as you mentioned. Your friend is asking you what to do because she also likes him and wants to go back to him. But if you want to date him, know that a problem could rise from this. It could be that you could lose your friend's friendship and she could get jealous of you, start to talk behind your back, etc. If she does get back to him, there could also be a risk of her talking bad about you to him if she finds out you like him too, I really don't know but there are lots of possibilities in this case but it all depends on various things like how their personalities are. If your friend is nice and understanding, you could try and talk to her about it, but before you do, you should make a decision of who you prefer to pick. Friendship with her or him as your boyfriend. Personally it sounds risky and problematic because he was her ex-boyfriend.

Have you talked it over with your mom? Maybe she can give you advice too?

There's a saying in Spanish which in English it means, "You can't order the heart." In other words, you can't make others do or feel something that you do. First of all is because it is wrong. Everyone has their own free will and by making them do something they don't feel or want is very bad.

If he doesn't like you but you like him, forget him. You want to be truly loved back, not liked to be nice. And you will be loved by a guy who will really love you for who you are, and you wont need to do anything but be yourself. And do you know why? Because he will love you because you will show something he will like like your eyes, your personality. And when he does, all you have to do is keep being yourself. ;)

But my opinion is that you forget about this guy because you might jumped into a problem. Just in case. But it is all up to you. :) But do not feel sad because there is "the" guy out there for each girl and "the" girl for each guy out there. It just needs time for you two to meet. :) And hopefully when that time comes, you will be ready to meet him and get to know him so you can make good memories with him like your first kiss and fun jokes and times you will spend together. **waves a finger in the air like a mommy*** But don't forget to always be a good girl. ;)

We've all had those times when we fall in love with the wrong guy but you will know when the guy you like is meant to be your guy. Same for guys, you will know when your girl will be your girl. And wanna know why? Because it will be clear to you that they like you back and they want to spend time with you. You'll just know. :)

Good luck Dalton and may God help and guide you to what will be best for you. :)

God wants everyone to be happy and He wants to give every good child what they want because seeing that it will make you happy, it makes him happy. Only He can give you what you want but if you are good. If you would like a cute and good guy, you will get one. Just wait and see. ;)
Either way, always try and be a good person. Not only because it is the right thing to do but also because it is a very admirable quality.

Stargirl

Oh my goodness! :O Have you and your mom talked to the doctor about it? Maybe during the surgery, they pulled a nerve that was connected to your mouth and tongue? (Just a guess). But if it is just swollen, it has to be healed sooner or later. Have you also tried gargling "Listerine" daily? It kills germs and maybe it can help your mouth (or in this case your tongue) heal faster.

Last year when I had a sore throat, I wasn't taking medicine anymore because the antibiotics and cough syrup they gave me made me feel worse. So I just kept gargling with "Listerine" a few times a day until I saw it was going away.

Is your tongue infected? Then you might need antibiotics. Best to talk to your doctor about it. If you and your mom are having doubts after talking to your doc, you might want to see another doctor for a second opinion.

After a surgery, the pain goes away later on and probably begin to itch. My mom had said before that when it itches, it is because it is healing. So careful not to touch the area where you had the surgery. If you need to apply like ointment or something like that, make sure you are careful and wash your hands very well before touching the delicate area of your wound.

As for the walking, I'm guessing it is to help the blood pump so it circulates better and bring it back to normal for your ear.

If all is good but the pain is bugging you, keep hanging on, but if you can't handle the pain, ask your mom what kind of pain reliever you can take to help you in the meantime.

Best wishes and a speedy recovery to you. :D **hugs***

Marissa,

Okay, let's see.....

If he is still your friend since 2nd grade awesome. Question is, does he talk to you or is he always quiet? Reason I ask is because there are some guys that when they get a little older, they act different. They are so quiet but most chances is because they are shy, insecure, or going through something that is bothering them. Maybe that is the reason why he had his classes changed? Was he having some kind of problem in school like was some of his classes hard? Or was there a bully in one of his classes? Has he told you what it is? If he hasn't, maybe he is scared or shy to talk about it.

Since you have the advantage of being his friend, you have a good reason to talk to him. First be there for him as a friend. You can slowly talk to him, but don't push him. Let him know gently that if he wants to talk about anything, that you are there for him. You can ask him questions like "Hey, I haven't seen you in my other classes. What happened?" Then you can add like, "Why, is everything okay? I can help you with a class, if you want." And also compliment him and encourage him when he shares or tells you good news. That helps his confidence too. For example, if he tells you he aced a test he was struggling with, cheer him for it. "I'm so proud of you!" or "good for you" well in your own words, lol.

The more you try to talk to him, hopefully he'll slowly open up to you because he will grow used to talking to you. I know it will take a lot of patience but if he is a talkative person then it shouldn't take him long.

As for the fact that you like him a lot but you don't want to ruin your friendship with him, I really don't know what to say about that because there is a risk of scaring him away. (Thinking out loud here) ..... But it depends on how he is. There are some guys that prefer to be told but there are also guys who freak out when they find out that one of their girl (friend) like him. Hmm, how about asking him indirectly? Like "Can I ask you something? What would you do if you had a girl who is a friend and tells you that she likes you, what would you do or how would that make you feel?" Oh but then comes the usual question they would ask you like "Why? Who likes me?" So that's another thing to think about lol. Man, this is hard.

Communication is important, so I can only guess that asking him or starting to give him little hints first like "You look nice today" could help, but again, I'm only guessing. I still don't know since my experience with guy friends was weird, lol. We used to talk but then they grew older and they got so quiet and we ended up going our separate ways. And whenever I talked to them, they were all shy and quiet so i have no idea. And I was just talking to them like I usually did, lol.

It's up to you but you might want to think of the situation in different ways to prepare yourself and help you decide what to do. Have you talked about it with a parent? Maybe they can give you some advice about this. I guess try to do what you think is best. :)

Good luck! ;)

Simone (very troubled),

From what I understood from your post, this guy you like is teasing girls in his class( so not good of him to do) and you're angry at him because he talks to girls in his class with no problems but he is shy to you?

If so, then maybe it's because, like you mentioned earlier, he likes you. There's some guys that are so talkative but shy towards the girl he likes or because he is trying to be nice or something. But since you already know he likes you, that does help because it shows that his shyness around you means he likes you.

What's hard is knowing if a guy likes you without asking him because there's guys that have their own way of expressing it like shyness, teasing, or even plain ignoring you. Yup, there's guys who ignore girls they like but chances are is because they are so shy or scared. Maybe both. My brother is like that.

Okay so here are some things you can try. It's best to start off slowly like a simple hi and a smile. You'll see that the more you do that, later on he'll say hi back or smile more easily than at first because he will grow used to seeing you wave at him. When you see the right time, try and talk to him. You don't have to make a long conversation, just start off slowly and asking questions like "How are you doing? How is your family? How is school? Do you play basketball? Do you have any hobbies?"

Now, there could be a chance that he'll either answer you short answers like "Yeah... no..." instead of an explanation or wont answer you at all, but no worries. Keep trying. When he does, you can try asking him for an explanation. Here's an example what I mean.

You: "Hi."
guy: (barely mumbles) "hi..." (And looks around.)

You: "I always see you around. How long have you and your family been coming to church?"

Guy: (shrugs) "I don't know."

You: "Was it for a long time?"

Guy: (shrugs arms again and stares at the ground) "Yeah."

**Note: If you have a sense of humor, you can try and make him laugh to help loosen him up.

You: "Yeah? No? Maybe? All the above?" (chuckles)

Guy: (Laughs shyly)

You: "What's your name?"

Guy: (takes a while to answer) "Brian." (or whatever his name is.)

You: "Cool. I'm Simone." (pause. If he says nothing then add) "Well, Brian. It was so nice to meet you. I hope to talk to you again next time."

Guy: 'kay."

You: "Nice talking to you. Take care. Bye."

Hopefully this will give you an idea of what to do or what to say. But use your own words so you can talk to him the way you are. :) And I think it would be a good idea to not start a long conversation at first. Just something small and simple. Then later on, you can add if you see it a good idea. This way, he thinks over what was said and what happened and hopefully he can say a little more to you next time. If you start a long conversation at first, I think it might be too much for him for now. But it's all up to you. :)

Good luck! **hugs**

anthony

Yay a guy in the blogs! :D **Cheers** Don't be shy to post guys. :D Guys and girls can post in these blogs here at Archie comics. :D

I'm proud of you Anthony for taking the courage to talk to the girl you like and her friends. It's hard and puts you in a uncomfortable spot but I'm proud of you because you did it! :D

You'll never know unless you ask, right? Okay it was cool that you talk to the girl and her friends. Don't worry be yourself. Get to know them first. But mainly the girl you like since she is who you are interested in. You might want to talk to her the most and spend the most time or sit next to her a lot. The reason is because since you want to get to know her, this will show you are interested in her. I'm not saying to ignore her friends, just be polite and nice of course, but your main focus is to ask this girl out, isn't it? And if you be super nice to all of them, they might start to get the wrong impression that you like them all or who knows.

So, start off slowly. Start off by smiling at her a lot and wave at her or say hi. Sit next to her in church when you can. After or before church starts, then you can talk to her like a friend like, "How long have you've been coming here? Do you go to school around here?" Ask questions you would like to know and ask her in your own words. Then when you feel ready to ask her out, you can try something like this: If there is something coming up that you would like to try like a movie, how about this? "There's a movie coming up in March 10th called "The Giant salami." (whatever the name of the movie you want to see) "Would you like to go and watch it with me?"

Or: "Do you like going to the mall?" If she says yes, then "Would you like to go with me this weekend? We can hang out there and look around or grab something to eat or whatever."

Now, if she says no, don't take it hard because you never know there could be a real reason she can't. Maybe she has something planned for that day or something. So you can try asking, "Oh okay. Well, if you like, any day you like. Just please let me know when."

If you see that she keeps doing this to you, then you might want to forget her and just stay with her as a friend or acquaintance. Up to you. If she is interested in you are a friend or boyfriend someday, she will agree to your date. As if she would like to be your girlfriend, you have to see how things are going further down ahead.

Good luck to you, and I'm here for you too. Guys or girls, I'm here for all our fellow bloggy buddies. :D

**hugs**

Serios Girl,

That's horrible!! Does that guy still kick you? Did he hurt your friend that she had to go to the hospital? Does this happen at school? Tell your parents or a parent you feel comfortable talking too and you both (and even better with both your friend and her parent) to go and see the principal and tell the principal about it. This guy is physically abusing you by kicking you and it is wrong. Tell the principal how you feel. If you are scared, tell the principal and your parent. If you like, you can have your classes changed so that you can avoid the trouble maker. The punk already has done something really serious and that is injure your friend to the point that she had to be taken to the hospital. Don't be afraid to speak to a principal. And if you need support, ask a person to take you (whoever you feel trust and comfortable around) to talk to the principal about it. And it is not ratting! You are saving your lives here. Yours, your friend's and other innocent people. By talking to the principal and letting him or her how you feel, it is up to him or her to figure out a punishment that would be best for the troublemaker's own good and from having the troublemaker harm you and others again.

If you are afraid to speak, find your own way. Here's an example. If you feel it best for you to "talk about it" by writing it down, why not write a letter to the principal about it? Write what happened as much detail as possible and add your feelings too.

Before you drop it off to the office or Principal's office, let your parent read it first and see what he or she says before it gets delivered to the principals office.

What you can also do is when walking to a class where the punk always attacks, walk with someone. Either a friend or teacher. If your friend is absent, you can ask a teacher if he or she can please walk with you to your next class. If he or she says why, tell them to avoid getting picked at again from a bully.

I hope this helps. Good luck and take care! :D

**hugs**

I wish all you bloggy buddies the best. I'm here if you guys and girls need me. :D

**hugs** :D

Hey Phemy!!!
i'm into fashion. i don't really play sports at all. a wanna be a fashion designer when i'm older. what do u wanna be? then where do u live? i only mean 2 ask the country. i don't want u 2 tell everyone exactly where u live!!! ur a great person. my hobbies r drawing, writing, reading, sewing, and listening 2 music. what r yours?

COOL!!!!! A FASHION DESIGNER SOUNDS WONDERFUL.I ACTUALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT I'LL BE,PERHAPS I'LL BE A LAWYER!

WELL,ACTUALLY, I LIVE IN A PLACE CALLED OMAN.YOU PROBABLY WOULDN'T HAVE HEARD ABOUT IT.IT'S SO HOT OVER HERE.

MY HOBBIES ARE COLLECTING THINGS LIKE STICKERS,STAMPS,COINS! I ALSO LOVE SINGING,PLAYING THE PIANO,PAINTING,LISTENING TO MUSIC,READING AND WRITING POEMS.I'LL POST A POEM FOR YOU IF I HAVE TIME.I ACTUALLY DON'T LIKE SEWING VERY MUCH 'CAUSE MY FINGERS ARE SO CLUMSY! AND I KEP GETTING PRICKED BY THE NEEDLE!

SIMONE,I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU THAT,I'M TURNING 12 ON OCTOBER 19TH,WE ONLY HAVE A BIT OF DIFFERENCE IN THE MONTHS.I ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE A 14 YEAR OLD GIRL TOO.BUT I DON'T ACT LIKE A 14 YEAR OLD!.I'M SO TALKATIVE!

SEE YA!

HILDA,I JUST WANTED TO TELL YOU THAT YOU'RE GREAT GIVING ADVICE!!!!!!

Thanks Hilda!It really helped.I actually like him because he is cute AND he is nice and understanding and my friend just doesn't realize that love isn't just cutness.No I still didn't tell my friend,Janelle how I feel yet but,I will when I'm ready.Plus he is starting to conect with me.And right now were just friends.Oh yeah,and just to let you know,he only liked Janelle because he thought she was cute too.Gee,it sounds like Betty and Veronica don't you think?:0)

OMG, Coral! You r in 5th grade and have a bf? I am in the fifth grade: and I can never think abou that! You shouldn't go on a date since u r so young!

PHEMY

:O Wow, thank you so much!! You've made me so happy! **tight bear hugs***

I try my best, lol.

Thanks again! :D

Dalton,

You're so welcome, my pleasure! :D I'm so happy I was of some help.

Yes, you got it! :D If you're friend just went out with him and he with her just because the other person is cute, then that is not love. It could just have been a crush.

(quote) "....I actually like him because he is cute AND he is nice and understanding and my friend just doesn't realize that love isn't just cutness."
Yes, so true! Congrats! Wow, you're very smart! :D

LOL, yeah, it does sound like Betty & Veronica.

Good luck! :D **tight hugs**

Thanks Hilda!You are great at giving advice!

**tighthugs2u2**

~Dalton~

Hi,lillynn.I know how you feel.It could be wird to date someone that is younger than you.Plus it depends on how they talk about her.If they talk about her in good way,like how nice and caring she is,then you shold be happy for her and theres someone for everyone.But if they talk about about how hot she is or how cute she is than,it's not love and it's only a crush and those go away quick which means he'll be yours in no time.But if they're talking about her in a bad way like saying she's stupid or something than tell her and forget him.I don't think anyone would want a boyfriend who talks about them behind their backs.Hope it helped!(((Hugs)))

~Dalton~

YOU'RE WELCOME HILDA!!! HUGS BACK TO YOU!!!

hey PHEMY!!
i play the piano too!!!! i am very talkative as well. i like stickers and stamps as well. its COLD here. ummm....by the way, how many sisters and brothers do u have? i have 5 sisters and no brothers. all my sisers are older than me. theres 5 years difference between me and the second youngest.

thanks Hilda!!!!
thats a great help!!! your so great and so helpfull!!

dear betty,
i'm so confused. there's this really nice guy who's in 2 of my classes at school, he never really talked to me until about a month ago, and now we talk all the time. lately, every time i look up, he's looking at me, and he looks away when he sees me looking at him. i think he likes me, because he goes out of his way to talk to me and walk with me. i'm not sure how i feel about him, but that's not the problem. he has a girlfriend who's really nice and who i like. i don't want her to get hurt, what should i do?

PHEMY, Dalton, and Simone,

You're very welcome! :D **hugs back**

HEY SIMONE!

FIVE SISTERS!!!!!!!I ONLY HAVE ONE SISTER AND THERE IS A FIVE YEAR DIFFERENCE BETWEEN US AND NO BROTHERS,ONLY COUSIN BROTHERS.

HUGS!!!

hey PHEMY!
five sisters isn't all THAT great. i mean....can u imagine how many fight can arrupt with 5 6 girls in the same house. HEAPS!!!! yesterday i went 2 a craft group. firstly we painted a pattern on some glass then we painted black around the pattern. then we got easter egg wrappers and stuck em' on behind the glass. so then you come out with a beautiful picture on the front. its really pretty. i wish i could show it 2 u.

COOL!!!!! I WISH I COULD SEE IT! I'VE STARTED MAKING MY EASTER EGGS TOO!

HAVE FUN MAKING MORE EASTER EGGS!

hey i'm only 8 but i got some boy problems there's this really cute guy who is 8 too, problem is he just turned 8 on march 3 and he has a huge crush on me!!!i like him in the 8 version but he just seames inmature!!are we the right match?anyway i am obbsessed with cute boys i always look for a boy who looks my age he'd be crushed if i told him that there were two boys that i think have a crush on me so far!!help!!!!!!

I love Betty she is so cool.I think Archie should date Betty more often!!!